This long-distance date idea is a sweet way to start the new year together, even when you can’t be in the same place. It’s perfect for couples who enjoy reflecting, setting goals together, and having meaningful conversations.
We know being apart can be tough, and it’s easy to focus on the hard parts like the time spent apart, missed hugs, or celebrations you couldn’t share together. This date is all about flipping that around and celebrating the good stuff—the little moments, the challenges you overcame, the laughs you shared, and all the victories along the way. It’s a great way to pause, appreciate everything you experienced together over the past year, and start the new year feeling connected, grateful, and excited for what’s ahead.
Instructions
Pick a time that works for both of you on Jan 1; use a time zone converter if needed.
Hop on a video call using Zoom, Google Meet, Discord, FaceTime, Microsoft Teams, or Skype.
Set up a jar, bowl, box, or container for each of you to collect your memories.
From New Year’s Day (Jan 1) through the end of the year (December 31st), make a note of any good moment, milestone, or accomplishment. Whenever a meaningful moment happens, add it to your jar.
The moments can be big or small, such as:
- A personal win or achievement
- Something new you did together
- A shared laugh or fun experience
- Something you overcame together
Continue this process throughout the year, adding each new memory to your jar as it happens.
On New Year’s Eve (Dec 31) open your jars together and read through every entry
Take turns reading and reflecting on why each moment mattered.
Elevate this date!
✨ Decorate your jars and turn them into special time capsules you can look back on at the end of the year.
💌 Do it digitally by creating a WhatsApp group and adding photos, voice notes, or short videos throughout the year to capture your memories.
🎨 Color code your entries by category, such as travel 🌍, personal growth 🌱, relationship milestones ❤️, or everyday joys ☀️.