This long-distance date idea is perfect for couples who want to relax, unwind, and spend quality time together in a calm and comforting way. One of the hardest parts of being in a long-distance relationship is missing out on physical experiences like going to the spa together, getting a massage, or simply relaxing side by side.
This is also a great option even if you’re in different time zones, where one person may be winding down at night while the other is starting their morning. While you may not be able to share these moments in person, this is a way to recreate that feeling together from a distance. Instead of your usual video call, you both create a cozy, spa-like environment and enjoy self-care while staying connected.
Instructions
Pick a time that works for both of you; use a time zone converter if needed.
Hop on a video call using Zoom, Google Meet, Discord, FaceTime, Microsoft Teams, or Skype.
Choose where you want to set up your spa space (bedroom, bathroom, cozy corner, or anywhere you feel most relaxed).
If you’re planning to take a bath, set up a bath tray so you can place your phone or device securely and still see your partner while you relax.
Prepare your spa items ahead of time. This can include:
• face masks
• skincare products
• oils or lotions
• eye patches
• bubble bath or bath salts
• body scrubs or exfoliators
Once you’re both ready, start your spa routine together.
Apply your face masks, skincare product or bath products at the same time and follow similar steps so it feels like you are doing it together.
While your masks are on, talk about your day, check in with each other, or just enjoy a calm and quiet moment together.
You can continue with other steps like moisturizing, hand care, or relaxing while your products set.
Take your time and relax.
Elevate this Date!
🕯 Use candles, fairy lights, or soft lighting to make it feel more like a real spa.
🍵 Prepare drinks like tea, infused water, cocktails, wine, or something warm and soothing.
📸 Take a cute screenshot or photo of your spa setups.
🎶 Play calming music, spa sounds, or your favorite relaxing songs together. Here is a nice playlist to get you started!