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Accomplishment Cake

🎂 Celebrate New Year’s Eve with an Accomplishment Cake by adding your past year’s highlights

Duration
1–2 hours on Dec 31
Cost
One small cake each
You need
Video call + cake
Mood
Proud & celebratory
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Accomplishment Cake
12 monthsone candle per win

This long-distance date idea is perfect for couples who want to celebrate New Year’s Eve in a meaningful way, even when miles apart. Your simple dessert becomes a visual timeline of the past year, with each accomplishment serving as a decoration on your cake and representing your growth, achievements, and successes. The cake itself celebrates you, giving you and your partner a chance to recognize both big milestones and small wins that you should feel proud of.

Instructions

How to do this date

  1. 1
    Each person buys a small cakeFrom their local bakery or store.
  2. 2
    Pick a timeThat works for both of you on Dec 31 ; use a time zone converter if needed.
  3. 3
    Hop on a video callUsing Zoom, Google Meet, Discord, FaceTime, Microsoft Teams, or Skype.
  4. 4
    Each person writes 5–10 accomplishmentsFrom the past year on small sticky notes; if you don’t have sticky notes, you can use candles.
  5. 5
    Some examples may include
    • Finishing school
    • Learning a new skill or hobby
    • Reaching a personal goal, like exercising more or saving money
    • Completing a trip or adventure
    • Overcoming a challenge or difficult moment
    • Getting married, engaged, pregnant, buying a house
    • Buying something new
  6. 6
    Attach each sticky note to a toothpick
  7. 7
    Take turns placing one note/candle into your cake and read the accomplishment out loudIf you are using candles, you can light them as you go or at the end.
  8. 8
    Continue until all accomplishments have been sharedOnce finished, enjoy eating your cake together!
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Make it a night to remember

  • Bake your cakes together first, if you like to cook
  • Plan the date to last 30 minutes so you can share your accomplishments gradually and time it perfectly to take your first cake bite exactly at midnight.
  • Take a photo of your finished cakes. In the New Year, repeat the date and reflect on those photos to see how much you’ve grown.